Remembering the person who hurt you…

I woke up this morning with a particular person on my mind.  It was a person that really surprised me by their actions.  I thought of them in a particular way, and slowly came to realize they weren’t that way at all.  I slowly realized that I couldn’t trust them, or believe what they said to my face, because their actions behind my back ...

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Focused on the Goal instead of Regrets

12-14I’m not saying that I have this all together, that I have it made. But I am well on my way, reaching out for Christ, who has so wondrously reached out for me. Friends, don’t get me wrong: By no means do I count myself an expert in all of this, but I’ve got my eye on the goal, where God is beckoning us ...

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Danger of focusing ‘too’ much on regrets

So, we’ve talked about the reality of having regrets, and how this (in my opinion) is a natural part of life, but what happens when we focus ‘too’ much on our regrets, and past mistakes? Fear Depression Overwhelming sadness Feelings of hopelessness Lost desire to try again…. (just to name a few) When considering the issue of regret it’s important to have a healthy ...

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